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Er…About Last Night

Last night I was supposed to dine at West. It was the Batasiolo winemaker’s dinner, one of the hottest tickets on the wine fest calendar, and I was really looking forward to it.

When I arrived downtown I decided to skip taking a cab and walked the rest of the way so I could enjoy the beginnings of the sunset en route.

About a quarter of the way across the Granville St. Bridge, a man walking about 30 yards in front of me stopped a girl, said something to her while dropping his bag at her feet, and kept on walking past.

When I got to where she was, she was a little panicky, saying that he’d told her that he was going to jump. I called 911 and as I was talking to the dispatcher the girl and I followed the man to the center of the bridge. We were 10 yards behind him when he stopped and climbed over the edge. We stopped too, unsure of what to do. We yelled “Don’t do it!” and “Wait!” several times, but didn’t dare get any closer.

He was about 40 years old, my height (5′8), and 175 lbs tops. He was wearing a baggy, cream-coloured suit that was a little dirty, and his black hair was short but wild. He hadn’t shaved for several days. His expression was one of frantic determination.

The next few seconds seemed to happen in slow motion. He looked at us, took a deep pull on his smoke before flicking it, and then jumped. It wasn’t a half-hearted jump either. It was a full on leap, an end-it-all swan dive with arms outstretched and no sound. Very surreal.

We watched him fall all the way down and land on his face and belly, the impact splash louder than the rush hour traffic whizzing past. He disappeared for a moment in the froth and then resurfaced face down, arms still outstretched, but without movement. Within 5 seconds, the current pulled him underneath the bridge span and out of our view.

This all happened while I was still on the line with the 911 dispatcher, and I felt pretty bad for her having to listen to it all remotely from her chair with her headset on (that must be a lame job). Anyway, the girl left pretty upset, and the dispatcher told me that I had to wait where I was with the jumper’s bag until a cop could get to me.

A crowd had gathered on the other side of the bridge, no doubt watching the body float away. A few minutes later a Coast Guard boat passed under the bridge with crew members pointing, followed closed behind by a little zodiac. I was all alone, not a little freaked. Just waiting and replaying what had just happened. When the cop arrived I told him what I saw. He took down my details and gave me a card in case I wanted to talk to someone. I guess I was in shock and looked the part, but I was OK.

So I didn’t show up at the West dinner. It was going to be the first time I would sample the new chef’s cooking, but I was pretty sure I wouldn’t be able to handle it. I turned around and on the advice of my wife (who called the restaurant and canceled for me) I walked to Bacchus for the fastest beer I’ve ever had (piano tinkling in the background), then to 900 West for several more, and then home to her and our kids. Sleep was sketchy at best, but I’m hoping that blogging about it will smooth the surreality out enough to allow for some perspective.

9 Comments »

  Alex Rotherham wrote @ February 27, 2008 at 2:42 pm

I got the shivers and a lump in my gut just reading that. I can’t imagine how you felt.

  jahvay wrote @ February 27, 2008 at 2:54 pm

I’m sure that event will be etched in your mind for awhile. Not a pleasent experience for anyone to witness. Always sad to see someone have to choose death over life.

  sue wrote @ February 27, 2008 at 3:50 pm

Andrew;
Your description of this is so poignant that we (Lexa and I ) feel like we were almost there. I am so sorry that you had to witness that - I’ve been there - and talking to someone completely unbiased is a very good idea - it helps a lot.
/sue

  Irishgirl wrote @ February 27, 2008 at 6:09 pm

I am so sorry Andrew. Desperation is powerful. That said, what you wrote as a result of the incident is powerful as well. One of your better efforts, despite the unfortunate circumstances behind it.

Keep healing.

  KarenDW wrote @ February 27, 2008 at 6:55 pm

Seconding Sue’s recommendation to speak w/ a Professional for debriefing. Have been there, too. Please don’t blow off the Victim Services people. I’m sad that you had to witness the result of someone’s despair.

  Annemarie wrote @ February 27, 2008 at 7:28 pm

Victim Services provided by the VPD are trained on how to help people cope with events like these. Do contact them, if only to see what they have to offer.

  Andrew Morrison wrote @ February 27, 2008 at 8:02 pm

Writing it down stopped the replay. I’m good and sorted. Thanks all.

  Jon wrote @ February 28, 2008 at 12:00 am

Hi,

I was in the park below the bridge yesterday and saw him dropping out of the corner of my eye. I too called 911 and ran to the scene below the bridge. What you apparently could not see below was an aquabus which quickly went to his aid. The pilot of the ferry was holding the jumper at the side of the boat but was apparently unable to pull him in - so not wanting to let go of the swimmer to drive the boat - they drifted until a dingy from the neaby marina was launched to go help. The jumper was consious and appeared to be responsive. Shortly after the dingy arrived the Coast Guard cutter appeared and the jumper was loaded into the dingy and from there into the cutter which promptly departed. I suspect he survived - I hope that lets you sleep easier tonight…

Jon

  Andrew Morrison wrote @ February 28, 2008 at 12:02 am

Well will you look at that! Thank you so much! :-)

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